Healing to Action
Describe a problem you've solved or a problem you'd like to solve. It can be an intellectual challenge, a research query, an ethical dilemma-anything that is of personal importance, no matter the scale. Explain its significance to you and what steps you took or could be taken to identify a solution.
"You know Yume, you're the only black girl that I like, the rest are so ratchet," he let out.
What... did he just say?
I let the words sink... because, well, I genuinely liked him. He'd helped me study for almost every computer science test and made the class somewhat bearable... but did he really just say that? I let my feelings race and the moment grow tense as I faked a laugh. The bell rang, and I was for once saved by the bell.
Was it a compliment? Was it because I was only half black? Was I better than other black girls? No, I wasn't, but his perception of me was. Instances like these occurred every so often my freshmen year, and eventually I realized that they weren't okay. For many girls, speaking out against a patriarchal society's views and social norms isn't an option. In some communities a young girl would be ridiculed for making such a large deal of something so perceivably normal and trivial.
However, normal is relative... and objectification is not. Young girls, especially African Americans girls, face a disproportionate amount of marginalization, fetishization and exoticism. I know, this sounds harsh, but think about it. Do you ever see any African American girls in Teen Vogue that aren't light skinned and white...
Join Now to View Premium Content
GradeSaver provides access to 2312 study guide PDFs and quizzes, 10989 literature essays, 2751 sample college application essays, 911 lesson plans, and ad-free surfing in this premium content, “Members Only” section of the site! Membership includes a 10% discount on all editing orders.
Already a member? Log in