Answer
See below
Work Step by Step
Given $v_1=(-4,0,0,1)\\
v_2=(1,2,3,4)$
Asume $u=(u_1,u_2,u_3,u_4)$ is orthogonal to both $v_1$ and $v_2$
then $=0\\
=0\\
-4.u_1+1.u_4=0\\
\rightarrow u_4=4u_1$
$=0\\
=0\\
1.u_1+2.u_2+3.u_3+4.u_4=0\\
u_1+2u_2+3u_3+16u_1=0\\
17u_1+2u_2+3u_3=0\\
17u_1=-2u_2-3u_3
\rightarrow u_1=-\frac{2}{17}u_2-\frac{3}{17}u_3$
Substitute: $u_4=4(-\frac{2}{17}u_2-\frac{3}{17}u_3)\\
\rightarrow u_4=-\frac{8}{17}u_2-\frac{12}{17}u_3$
Obtain: $u=\{(-\frac{2}{17}u_2-\frac{3}{17}u_3,u_2,u_3,-\frac{8}{17}u_2-\frac{12}{17}u_3); u_2,u_3 \in R$
If we take $u_2=17,u_3=0 \rightarrow u_1=(-2,17,0,-8)$
If we take $u_2=0,u_3=17 \rightarrow u_2=(-3,0,17,-12)$
Obtain: $\begin{bmatrix}
-4 & 0 & 0 & 1\\
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
-2 & 17 & 0 & -8\\
-3 & 0 & 17 & -12
\end{bmatrix} \approx \begin{bmatrix}
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
-4 & 0 & 0 & 1\\
-2 & 17 & 0 & -8\\
-3 & 0 & 17 & -12
\end{bmatrix} \approx \begin{bmatrix}
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
0 & 8 & 12 & 17\\
0 & 12 & 6 & 0\\
0 & 6 & 26 & 0
\end{bmatrix} \approx \begin{bmatrix}
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
0 & 8 & 12 & 17\\
0 & 7 & 2 & 0\\
0 & 3 & 13 & 0
\end{bmatrix} \approx \begin{bmatrix}
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
0 & 8 & 12 & 17\\
0 & 0 & -\frac{17}{2} & -\frac{119}{8}\\
0 & 0 & -\frac{17}{2} & -\frac{51}{8}
\end{bmatrix} \approx \begin{bmatrix}
1& 2 & 3 & 4\\
0 & 8 & 12 & 17\\
0 & 0 & -\frac{17}{2} & -\frac{119}{8}\\
0 & 0 & 0 & \frac{68}{8}
\end{bmatrix}$