“The ability to turn inward confidence into outward action by using her voice to self-advocate is one of the most crucial life skills your daughter will rely on, as a young adult and for years to come.”
The lessons Porges gives in the book is not only aimed at young women but at those raising young girls. She asserts that attributes and traits such as confidence and courage in women should be instilled from childhood. Porges incorporates her own success and shortcomings to express the significance of these lessons from the onset before young adulthood. In essence, to nurture the female voice and assertiveness in womanhood, confidence has to be taught and familiarized.
“Nurturing your girl’s ability to effectively speak up for herself is critical to encouraging her independence, both intellectually and emotionally.”
Porges acknowledges that most social issues that women suffer from in our society stem from not finding their voice and independence. Womanhood is met with challenges from all spheres including education, career advancement, and domestic life. Therefore it is significant for young girls to find their voice to be accustomed to standing for themselves. In the quote, Porges affirms the meaning of independence for women, something she has learned through her life and career.
“It’s hard for many women, myself included, to effectively and appropriately assert themselves in mixed gender environments, whether at work or at home.”
Porges aims to empower the young girl by preparing them for the reality that women have it harder in finding their voice in society. Therefore, young women have to learn skills such as adaptability and competitiveness to survive in mixed gender environments. Porges has navigated through male-dominated careers that include working in the government and the White House. As a leader of women, she offers her experiences in her career and private life to nurture confidence and independence in young girls.
