I Am Not your Perfect Mexican Daughter

How do Julia’s relationships with her family members (Amá, Apa, Olga) change over the course of the book?

what leads to this changes?

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Julia is living in an abusive family that is full of secrets and lies. She does not fully understand who she is because more often she is referred to as a troublesome girl who brings many problems to her family. Ama is very strict with unrealistic goals for Julia. Mostly Julia Reyes disagrees with her mother because she does not accept the standards set for her. Olga, on the other hand, is highly secretive and keeps distant from Julia. Ama and Apa consider Olga as a saint but see Julia as a troublemaker. Apa is a silent father who always minds his business without taking the interests of Julia seriously. All these scenarios leave Julia confused and fails to understand her purpose in life. She is later blamed for Olga’s death by Ama who claims that it is her fault that she failed to go to pick Olga.

After the burial of Olga, Julia is forced to take part in a traditional party and ritual, which she is totally against. Julia, at last, comes to understand who she is after uncovering the secrets and lies in her family. When she discovers that Olga’s sainthood was a hype, she understood that she is not as useless as she thought. Therefore, Julia decided to concentrate on actualizing her dreams and later she became a renowned individual.