what qualities did lily have that allowed her to survive, endure, and eventually thrive, despite t. ray?

Lily is resilient, empathetic and a survivor. She has the strength to leave her abusive father and face the challenges of finding out about her deceased mother. Lily prefers the company of blacks who she identifies with more than she does with whites. Lily has the fortitude to live on her own until she joins a matriarchal community of black women.