The Question and Answer section for The English Patient is a great resource to ask questions, find answers, and discuss the novel.
Kip's ayah was the only mother he knew..... she comforted him and gave him the love and care his parents didn't. Thus, we can infer that in this situation, he is mourning the loss of the only mother he'd ever known.
Sorr, I don't know what you are asking here.
Sorry, this is only a short answer question forum space.