What are 2 of the most difficult things on the narrators list that she tells her mother

1) That it's her mother's fault she flunked Kindergarten because her mother couldn't teach her..... that she's smart, amd that she isn't getting married...... she's going to college.

2) That she caanot tell the difference between her mother's truths and lies.

3) just for good measure....... she told her mother that she hated Chinese schools.

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